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<h2>Unfortunately, several seemingly harmless practices before sex might cause issues, destroying your otherwise healthy pleasure. So if you're going to get physical, here are things to avoid.</h2>

1. Avoid very spicy or high-fat content foods&nbsp;

If you're planning on having sex, keep the hot sauce to a minimum. Spicy meals, such as curry and peppers, can cause acid reflux symptoms such as heartburn and a burning sensation in the throat, making it difficult to get in form. In addition, you may not be able to hold in gases or burps if your body is sensitive to spicy foods.&nbsp;

Not only that, but rich, fatty foods (think fried chicken, citrus fruits, carbonated drinks, and caffeinated beverages) can cause heartburn since they're difficult for your body to digest.&nbsp;

So, take it easy on your stomach. Whole grains (think oatmeal and brown rice), root vegetables (think sweet potatoes and carrots), and green vegetables (think asparagus, green beans, and broccoli) are foods that are less prone to cause heartburn.

2. Keep the alcohol to a bare minimum&nbsp;

While a few beers may get you in the mood, men should avoid drinking too much alcohol before sex. Excessive alcohol intake can cause Erectile dysfunction (ED) – a condition that makes it challenging to get or maintain a solid erection to do the needful.&nbsp;

Though a few alcohol-related episodes may not always indicate that you have ED, substantial drinking regularly might lead to long-term issues. Always remember that a maximum of two drinks a day is considered okay for men.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;

3. Never shave right before sex&nbsp;

Is shaving your lady parts your favourite method of grooming? It's not an issue, but you should prepare ahead of time. Shaving makes the skin around your genitals easily broken, sensitive, and susceptible to irritation from sex friction.&nbsp;

So, shave the day before you're going to get intimate to reduce your danger. To further limit your risks of irritation, always use shaving cream or gel, shave in the direction of hair growth, and finish with a fragrance-free moisturizer.

4. Skip taking antihistamine&nbsp;

Do you get a stuffy feeling? If you are going to get busy later, you might want to skip the cough and cold medicine. While antihistamines aid in drying runny noses, they aren't the only item that will dry up. Because these medicines cause mucous membranes to dry out all over the body, women may feel that their vaginas are less lubricated.

If you need to take antihistamine medications, keep a water-based lubricant handy. Lubing up will ensure that you're wet enough down there to enjoy yourself.

5. Avoid skipping the foreplay&nbsp;

Foreplay might assist you and your lover in getting in the mood if you have the time. Kissing, snuggling, and oral stimulation are all examples of foreplay, and the advantages are enormous.&nbsp;

Preparing your genitals for intercourse begins with foreplay. Increased blood flow to the clitoris may cause women to become moist, while high blood flow to the penis may cause males to have an erection. It also increases your heart rate, making you feel more connected to your spouse as you grow closer.

Going down on your woman will make her love you like crazy

Unfortunately, several seemingly harmless practices before sex might cause issues, destroying your otherwise healthy pleasure. So if you're going to get physical, here are things to avoid.

5 things you should avoid before making love to your partner

But unfortunately, when we get used to some seemingly harmless daily habits, they can cause long-lasting brain damage.

The human brain is an essential part of the body, so it requires healthy living to function correctly. However, some daily habits can damage your brain if you do not stop. Here are some of them below.

The first thing you should forget about is alcohol. Many people who drink excessively think they’re cool, but in fact, it's just the opposite. Alcohol often causes dementia because your brain cells continue to die and affect your brain function.&nbsp;

Alcohol also causes poor decision-making skills, leading to Alzheimer's disease if not appropriately controlled. You can drink, just make sure it’s moderate.&nbsp;

Another daily habit that damages the human brain is smoking cigarettes and other drugs such as weed, cocaine, etc. These habits increase stress on your blood vessels while decreasing oxygen flow. Frequent consumption will result in permanent damage of neurons over time. It could even kill some nerve cells leading to diseases like Parkinson's.

If you are a night owl, perhaps it's time to make some healthy lifestyle changes. If you don’t get enough sleep, it will affect your ability to focus and concentrate on tasks. As a result, this can cause problems with learning and memory as well as even mood disorders such as anxiety or depression.

Another daily habit that damages the human brain is stress which comes from working long hours every day without giving yourself some time off for relaxation. According to research, chronic stress can shrink parts of the hippocampus (the part of your brain responsible for certain types of memory such as spatial navigation).

This causes short-term memory loss but, more importantly, reduces problem-solving skills over time if left unchecked or untreated. It also leads to mental health issues like depression or PTSD, depending on what type of stressful situation was endured for an extended period.

Dr. William Burke going over a PET brain scan at Banner Alzheimer's Institute in Phoenix. Biogen's drug was tested against carriers of the APOE gene, which is linked to Alzheimer's, and non-carriers.

We often don't realize the causes or effects of habits; they just happen.

Daily habits that can damage your brain

When you barely have intercourse with your partner, it can make you both grow apart, and you lose that romantic connection you once shared. Below are some proven ways men can seduce their wives and help them have sex more.

The physical urge to have sex is actually fueled by an emotional connection which is why it is essential to talk to your partner. If your partner has any kinks, it can help you know what she likes and give her the best sex possible.&nbsp;

Spend some time to figure out what is going on in her head during sex and tap into it. Learn her fears and insecurities so you both can deeply connect on an emotional level.

2. Take load off her mind

Women find it hard to get in the mood, let alone enjoy intercourse because they usually have a million things going on in their minds. These things include tasks that need to be completed, chores, conversations with family and friends, and many other things.&nbsp;

First, help her complete her pending tasks during the day so she'll have time for you. Then help her process her feelings by asking about what's on her mind and helping her resolve them.&nbsp;

3. Spend time with the kids

Make a habit of playing and spending time with the kids because your wife loves the kids more than anything. When she sees you showing so much love to the kids, it'll reignite the love she has for you.&nbsp;

It's not about taking responsibility for the kids so she'll have more time (although that is a nice idea); it is about emotional bonding. In addition, when you share the children's weight with her, she'll have more time for you.

4. Show gratitude

Men struggle to give compliments, but letting your wife know how much you appreciate and care for her goes a long way in turning her on. Look for an area where your wife has been doing an excellent job, be it taking care of the kids or her body, and appreciate her.&nbsp;

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You slip it on only to feel below and realize you've got a hole. This can create a problem, especially if that's the only one you have left.

Why did it happen? It's not like you misused it; you just ignored the signs. Believe it or not, your underwear is one of the most essential clothing. Not only does it shield your private part, but it also absorbs all the microorganisms and sweat your body exudes.&nbsp;

If you never know when to go to the store to get new underwear, then this article is a sign. Most people find it hard to do away with underwear, especially ones they're attached to. But, if your underwear starts showing any of these signs below, then for the sake of personal hygiene, you need to change them.&nbsp;

1. They no longer fit like they used to

If your underwear expands more than normal or becomes too small because of weight gain, then it's time you did away with it. Tight underwear can chafe your skin, and it's bad for men because it doesn't give the scrotum breathing space and can cause low sperm count.

2. There’s a tear

When you wear lightweight clothes, there's a slim chance people would be able to see your underwear, and you don't want them to see a tear do you? Torn underwear needs to be replaced or sewn if you can manage.

If your underwear now has a different color from the original, you should change it immediately. Discolored underwear is primarily common among women, and it can be due to excessive sweat or the material.

If your underwear still stinks after you've washed it, then nobody has to remind you to replace it. Odor can mostly come from the presence of microorganisms, and this is a hallmark of poor hygiene.&nbsp;&nbsp;

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You just got out of the shower, and as usual, you head for that drawer to grab a piece of underwear.

Signs you need to change your underwear

Also, we can't deny that there's fun in guessing the gender of the unborn baby. Moreover, with various people stating their opinions about the baby's gender, you start to look for answers yourself.&nbsp;

Different studies claim that it's possible to predict the gender of your unborn baby. Although the predictions can be wrong sometimes, it's the fun in seeing whether or not you guessed right that matters.

Below are some scientific signs that can give away the gender of your unborn child.&nbsp;

1. Severe nausea and vomiting

Although it's common for pregnant women to experience morning sickness, the intensity can mean a few things. Few mums suffer from more severe vomiting and nausea than their pregnant counterparts. Studies show that these moms most likely carry a girl because of the pregnancy hormone (hCG) produced more by female fetuses.&nbsp;

2. Forgetful memory

Do you often forget the slightest things? Sure, it can be due to stress, but studies have linked women carrying daughters to underperforming in memory tests compared to moms carrying sons. So, if you're pregnant and constantly struggling to remember where you kept your car keys, it could be the reason why.

It may be surprising, but cortisol levels can determine the gender of your unborn child. Research says high-stress levels during pregnancy increase the chances of expecting a girl. The reason is that girls are less vulnerable to inhospitable environments.&nbsp;

Although your appetite is bound to change during pregnancy, increased food cravings are linked to carrying a male child. With boys, you can also crave salty foods like chips and fries. However, studies say with girls, you'll crave sweet foods more like chocolate. This substantiates the fact that boys need more calories than girls; that's why they're usually heavier than girls at birth.&nbsp;

5. Gestational diabetes

Another study links gestational diabetes- a condition of increased blood glucose to carrying a boy. Although no evidence holds water for this claim, the closest backing to this theory is that the male fetus leads to more pregnancy-associated metabolic changes than female fetuses.&nbsp;&nbsp;

The moment you announce your pregnancy, everyone is curious whether you'll have a boy or a girl.

Scientific signs during pregnancy that can show if you're having boy or girl

So, whether you cherish valentine's or you detest it, you deserve to know the history.&nbsp;

You may have heard the name of St. Valentine a couple of times in your lifetime, but who is this saint, and where did the tradition originate from? There are several legends, so why don't you just hear most of them. For example, one legend says St. valentine was a priest who served in Rome.&nbsp;

When the Roman emperor of that era (Emperor Claudius II) decided that single men made better soldiers than married men, he banned marriages for young men. St. Valentine thought it was an unfair decree, so he defied Claudius and continued joining young couples in holy matrimony, but in secret.

When Claudius discovered St. Valentine's covert operation, he ordered that he be put to death. Another story said Valentine was killed for trying to help Christians escape Roman prisons where they were tortured and beaten.&nbsp;

A pagan festival?

Although some believe valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of february to honor the death of St. Valentine, others claim the christian church decided to place it in the middle of february to 'Christianize' the pagan celebration of Lupercalia. In short, Lupercalia was a fertility festival in honor of a Roman god (check online for more details).

In the middle ages, it was widely believed in England and France that february 14th was the beginning of birds' mating season. This contributed to the idea that valentine's should be a day for romance. An English poet, 'Geoffrey Chaucer' was the first to record february 14th as a day of romance in his 1375 poem.&nbsp;

This is as far as you'll be interested in with the history of valentine's because more history may bore you out. So now you have an idea of where valentine originated from, and you have something to say when the discussion comes up.&nbsp;

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Not only is it the primary energy source in breast milk, but fat also aids proper brain development and growth. However, did you know that the amount of fat in breast milk is not constant throughout the day?

The alternation of fat levels in breast milk is very common, and it's not an issue worth worrying about. There are also various ways to determine if your baby is receiving a good amount of fat from your breast milk.&nbsp;

With each feed, breast milk undergoes changes to meet the infant's needs. However, the average fat content is around 3.6g/dL (dL- deciliter, 1dL- 100ml). The fats in breast milk include triacyclglycerols, fatty acids, and cholesterol.&nbsp;

Factors influencing fat in breast milk

1. Emptiness of the breast: the emptier the breast, the richer it is in fat content. The hindmilk that comes after the foremilk often contains more nutrients, so babies get more fat for development.&nbsp;

2. Feeding time: breastmilk released in the evening or at night has been proven to have more fat content. This is due to fat accumulation in the milk throughout the day. Because babies nap a lot during the day, feeding them in the evening or at night provides them with more fat.&nbsp;

3. Nutrition of mother: the mother's lifestyle can have a significant effect on the baby. If a mother frequently consumes foods rich in fat, the fat is passed on to her baby through the milk. Thus, nursing mothers must eat healthily.

How to increase fat and nutrients in breast milk

1. Empty one breast before switching: when you let your baby empty the milk in one breast before switching, you're making sure they get the fat-rich hindmilk.

2. Massage the breasts: getting breast compressions before a feed can help move the fattier milk forward and clear the milk ducts.&nbsp;

3. Eat a balanced diet: as mentioned earlier, a healthy fat intake ensures that the breast has sufficient quality fat. In addition, breastfeeding mothers can consume eggs, meat, vegetable oils, soybean, and fish.

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Fat is an essential component of an infant's diet.

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You like to be around them and always imagine both of you together, but the harsh realization hits you that they might not feel the same about you.&nbsp;

Making someone fall in love with you is a long process, but it’s worth it at the end of the day. So, if you’ve been wondering how to make that special someone fall for you, then it’s your lucky day. Below are some ways to make your crush start to develop feelings for you.&nbsp;

1. Start conversing

If you’re always just staring from afar, there’s no way they can develop anything for you. Even worse, they might think you’re a creep. Starting a conversation will help you get things on track. Please don’t be nervous; approach them, be genuine and make your conversation as enjoyable as possible.&nbsp;

The best way to start random conversations is with a common interest. For example, if you go to the same school, you can start with a class you both attend.&nbsp;

2. Don’t be scared to express yourself

Many people have problems opening up because they think they get vulnerable when they do. But it’s actually the opposite. When you open up and genuinely express your feelings, you’re brave. You won’t know your crush’s feelings for you until you show yours.

To impress a certain someone, people go as far as adopting a fake personality and pretending. Pretending to be someone you’re not may work for some time, but when you’re exposed as a liar, people won’t want to associate with you anymore. Embracing who you are is the key to being likable.&nbsp;

4. Use body language

A few psychological tricks can instantly tell anyone that you are interested in them. In conversations, lean forward, be a good listener and give the appropriate response. Maintain eye contact every time, always smile and talk openly. If you combine all these tips, you’ll come off as a charismatic person.&nbsp;

5. Hang out together

If you don’t hang out with the person you like, then both of you would never get time to bond or connect on a personal level. It does not necessarily have to be a formal date; inviting them to the movies or a party will suffice.&nbsp;

Other tips to make them like you are to be available, respond to their texts, talk about your flaws, compliment them, have a great sense of humor, and smell nice.

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Seeing them, you go weak in the knees and feel butterflies in your stomach; okay, that’s a little cheesy, let’s try again.

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Do you often hear phrases like these and start to feel anxious or doubt yourself? Chances are, you’re being gaslighted, or you truly have these problems.&nbsp;

Whether you need help or not, you shouldn’t tolerate gaslighting. Gaslighting is psychological abuse that can take a toll on your mental health. Furthermore, it is manipulating you into making you think you’re crazy.&nbsp;

It is a tactic self-righteous, abusive, and narcissistic partners use to trap their partners. These psychopaths make their partners think they can’t do without them, and they make them so confused they often lose their sense of freedom. Unfortunately, most people don’t know when they’re being gaslighted; it just happens. Luckily, below is a compilation of but not limited to common gaslighting phrases you should watch out for so you can take appropriate action.

1. ‘Stop misunderstanding me’

Sometimes, partners give their significant others very vague instructions so they can intentionally get stuff wrong and shoulder the blame. When you get a slight hunch that something is wrong with a gaslighter, they twist the circumstances and make it about you.

2. ‘You are too emotional’

If you give the appropriate emotional response to a gaslighter’s actions and they start mentioning how you often overreact, they’re not suitable for you. Sometimes you wonder if you’re really overthinking it, but it’s just the manipulative effect.

3. ‘You are ungrateful’

When someone keeps bringing up favors, they’ve offered you in the past, it’s blackmail. Gaslighting partners will mention how much they’ve sacrificed for you, so you feel guilty and unappreciative. Then you think you owe them and start obeying their every request.

4. ‘You’re making things up’

With white lies, any skilled gaslighter can make you sound crazy. They tell you you’re making things up and continue to water the seed of self-doubt in you.&nbsp;

5. ‘You’ve gained weight’

Not that your partner can’t tell you when you’ve added a few pounds, but when they continuously spot your flaws and try to make you feel uncomfortable in your own skin, then they are gaslighting you. They can also say things like, “you look bad in that dress’, ‘You should lose weight to look like…….’

“You need help,” “you’re being insecure.”

Gaslighting phrases in a relationship you should watch out for

For example, after much thought, you have decided that you can’t carry on with the marriage anymore. If the decision was tough, telling your partner will be even harder, especially if your spouse wants to fix things.&nbsp;

Although the process is painful, you can do it calmly and sensibly without causing significant damage. Of course, no matter how you say it, you’ll leave your partner devastated, so it’s best to clearly and gently state why you’re no longer interested. Below are some points you should keep in mind when telling your partner that you want a divorce.&nbsp;

1. Plan what you are going to say

Whatever you say, ensure you are firm on your decision. If you look hesitant, you’ll make your partner believe there is room for reconciliation. Ensure you have a valid reason for opting for divorce and be prepared to answer your partner’s questions.&nbsp;

2. Don’t drop it unexpectedly&nbsp;

Don’t think your partner is prepared to handle bad news just because things are going well. Instead, mentally prepare them for what you have to say by telling them you need to speak to them about something important instead of dropping a bomb on them.&nbsp;

3. Be considerate but direct

When you break the news to your partner, be polite and mind what you say to them. Avoid being brutally blunt, but also don’t beat around the bush. Show compassion by telling them you understand how hard it must be for them to process the news and how the decision is the right step to take.

4. Don’t get defensive

After giving your partner valid reasons why divorce is best, explain how it would do you both good in the long run. However, if they don’t take the news well and start venting out their grief and anger, don’t get defensive or argue because it’ll only exacerbate the situation.&nbsp;

5. Avoid the blame game

When you were marrying your partner, you may have had high expectations from them. Sadly, you were disappointed. It’s natural to feel disgruntled, but avoid blaming someone when separating. You can tell them how their behavior affected you, but you also need to take some of the blame.

Nobody wants to divorce after marriage. In fact, it should be the last resort. If you’re constantly fighting with your spouse, try to settle it amicably or seek a marriage counselor. But if you feel the marriage can’t be saved any longer and you want a divorce, at least now you know how to say it.

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When your baby doesn’t nap after feeding, petting, and even singing them a song, you may start to think something is wrong.&nbsp;

Newborns need more sleep than adults for optimal growth and development. As a result, most babies sleep more during the day and lesser at night. This is called a day-night reversal, and it causes problems for many parents. Various factors can affect a baby’s sleep, and below are some of them.

1. Night feedings

If you don’t feed your newborn enough during the day, they’ll crave food at night and won’t want to sleep. To curb this, feed your baby enough during the day or in the evening so they won’t wake up at night.&nbsp;

2. Day-night reversal

Although babies tend to differentiate between day and night as they grow older, they don’t know the difference. As a result, they can sleep for several hours during the day and stay awake most of the night. You can help them know the difference by making a few changes to their schedule.&nbsp;

For example, don’t introduce sleep-inducing activities during the day like swaddling. Also, limit their daytime nap to four or five hours so they’ll be able to sleep at night. Another solution is letting sufficient light enter the baby’s room during the day and making it darker at night.

When your baby starts teething, it can be difficult for them to bear the pain, so they may let out the pain through constant crying at night. In this case, you may not be able to do much.

4. Changes in their sleep schedule

When your baby falls sick, their sleep schedule can change, and it’ll be hard for them to go back to normal after the illness. If any factor disrupts your baby’s schedule, start recreating the schedule from the beginning, and you’ll make it work.&nbsp;

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Many people find soda energizing and refreshing, and some pregnant women use it to cope with pregnancy fatigue, but frequent consumption can do more harm than good.

If you are still wondering what soda is, it's the regular soft drinks you consume daily like Coke, Pepsi, etc. Soda is a mixture of sweeteners like sucrose, fructose corn syrup, caffeine, and carbonated water. Drinking soda once a while during pregnancy is unlikely to cause any problems, but since most of the ingredients can cause adverse health outcomes, abstaining totally may be the best option.

How caffeine in soda can affect your baby

Studies on the effect of caffeine on pregnant women haven't been concluded, but caffeine has been linked to miscarriage, low-birth weight, and stillbirth. Pregnant women that consume caffeine also have heightened nausea, indigestion, dizziness, and insomnia.

How sugar in soda can affect your baby

During pregnancy, your baby needs to maintain a healthy weight, so for this reason, experts advise pregnant women to limit foods containing excessive amounts of sugar. Soda can make pregnant women lose appetite for healthy foods and lead to maternal weight gain.

What of carbonated water and flavorings?

Carbonated water is comparable to plain water because it provides hydration, and it is a good alternative when ordinary water is unavailable. However, carbonated water often contains flavoring agents like citric and phosphoric acid. These acids can be a serious issue during pregnancy as they can increase the risk of oral health issues.&nbsp;

Soda alternatives that are safe to consume during pregnancy

The best beverage to keep you hydrated is water; pregnant women should drink around 8-12 cups of water daily for optimal hydration. However, drinking plain water can get boring sometimes, but you don't have to resort to soda.&nbsp;

Great tasting liquids that are healthy hydration alternatives include; milk, coconut milk, fruit juice, coconut water, and tea. Be careful not to consume just any kind of herbal tea since some of them contain ingredients that are not appropriate during pregnancy. You can consult your doctor if you have any inquiries.&nbsp;&nbsp;

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Everyone wants that radiant smile, and many people try all means to get it. However, most teeth whitening products bleach your teeth with chemicals that can have adverse effects in the long run. If you need teeth whitening remedies that you can use from the comfort of your home, then you've come to the right place.&nbsp;

Many factors cause the teeth to become yellow and lose their shine. Some foods stain your enamel, and plaque buildup can contribute to the yellowing of your teeth. You don't have to resort to chemicals to whiten your teeth, below are natural teeth whitening remedies compiled for you.&nbsp;

1. Hydrogen peroxide

Unlike other chemicals, hydrogen peroxide is a natural bleaching agent that kills bacteria in the mouth. It can be found in mouthwash, and it has been used for years to disinfect wounds. Hydrogen peroxide can be purchased over the counter, and an excellent way to use it is as a mouthwash before you brush your teeth. You can mix it with water to dilute it before use.

Baking soda contains natural whitening properties, and it is a common ingredient in your commercial toothpaste. It helps to scrub away tooth stains, and it creates an alkaline atmosphere in your mouth which prevents the growth of harmful bacteria.&nbsp;

Baking soda won't whiten your teeth overnight, but it will improve the appearance of your teeth over time. You can mix baking soda and hydrogen peroxide to create your own teeth whitening paste. For more guidance, check online for the recommended amount to mix.

3. Eat veggies and fruits

Although eating plenty of fruits and vegetables aren't a substitute for regularly brushing your teeth, they help prevent and eliminate plaque. For example, pineapples and strawberries have been proven to contain acids that help with healthier teeth.

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Every year, many people spend a lot of money on teeth whitening.

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Statistics now show that the average thirty-year-old is unmarried, but what exactly is the joy of marrying late? Below are some advantages of getting married later in life.

1. You're more likely to do it right

Couples that marry in their teens or twenties are more likely to struggle because of the rush and inexperience. Marriage isn't child's play, so it can fail if the couple is not mature enough to make smart decisions. On the other hand, when you marry late, you will use the experience you'll get from people around you to build a successful marriage.

2. It's the best time to settle

Many people talk about your twenties being the best years of your life, but the fact is, your twenties is when you struggle to find yourself. In your twenties, you'll go in and out of relationships, establish a career and make mistakes. But in your thirties, you'll have the time and means to do whatever you want to do.

3. You can focus on your career

Career progression takes an enormous amount of time and energy; that's why the best time to do it is in your twenties. If you first get married early and then focus on your career, you'll have a hard time being there for your family. But if you do all the grind in your twenties and proceed to settle down after you have achieved your aim, you'll have the time to raise a family.&nbsp;

4. Marriage is expensive

When couples rush into marriage, the wedding and other expenses they'll have to cater for can leave them overwhelmed. But when you settle after you're established, you and your partner will have the funds to handle all the obstacles.

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In many cultures of the world, being unmarried at thirty is an unspeakable thing, but little do people know the merits that come with taking your time before settling down.

Advantages of getting married late

As a man, it is essential to understand that some women won't show interest in you, and that's okay. Below are some common signs that can tell if a woman is not interested in a relationship.

1. She doesn't pay attention

Where a woman focuses her attention can tell you a lot about her. If she's focused on anything other than you and doesn't seem excited to spend time with you, then chances are she wants to leave as soon as possible.

In addition, other gestures that can show that she is not focused on you includes checking her phone constantly or acting like there's somewhere she needs to be.

2. She pulls away from gentle touches

Women like to be touched by men they like and get irritated by physical touch from men that don't tickle their fancy. If you notice a woman constantly pulling away when you try to near her or even make physical contact, then she might not be interested.

3. She doesn't try to touch you

When women are attracted to men, they don't hesitate to try to touch. If she hasn't broken the touch barrier, she's either not interested or shy. Pray it's the latter. If you want to be sure if she's shy or disinterested, try holding her hand; if she pulls away, she's not interested.

4. She doesn't ask personal questions

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