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5 Family boundaries everyone needs for a happier life

When you do not set proper boundaries, the relationship with your family can suddenly become overwhelming, leading to unnecessary stress and issues. 
Family boundaries everyone needs to set for a happier life
Family boundaries everyone needs to set for a happier life

Having a family is great, the help and support they provide is usually unmatched. But then, when you do not set proper boundaries, the relationship with your family can suddenly become overwhelming, leading to unnecessary stress and issues. 

This is why you need to set boundaries in order to ensure you maintain mutual respect and have your personal space. With that in mind, here are some family boundaries you need to set for a happier life.  

1) Respect for personal space

In many homes, it is common for family members to feel entitled to each other’s time, belongings, and even decisions. While closeness is valued, everyone needs personal space. Whether it’s having a room to retreat to, alone time after a long day, or setting limits on unannounced visits, respecting personal space is important in order to maintain peace.  

 2) Financial boundaries

Money is a major source of conflict in many families, especially in extended family settings. Some relatives may feel entitled to financial support without considering personal limitations. It is important to set clear boundaries regarding financial assistance.

Learn to say no when necessary and make your financial stability a priority. Tell family members your limits, and if possible, offer help in ways that do not jeopardise your own pocket.  

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3) Privacy in relationships and marriages

Many people face interference from relatives in their romantic relationships and marriages. Parents, siblings, and even extended family often feel they have a say in how a couple should run their home. While advice is sometimes helpful, it is essential to set boundaries to prevent unnecessary meddling.

Make it clear that your relationship decisions are between you and your partner, and avoid sharing too many personal details with outsiders.  

An AI-generated image of elderly Kenyan parents spending time with other family members in a warm and inviting home setting

4) Freedom to make life choices

From career paths to marriage, many people experience pressure from family members regarding life decisions. This comes from parents expecting their children to follow a specific profession or marry at a certain age.

While their concerns may come from a place of love, it is important to assert your right to make decisions that align with your happiness and goals. Politely but firmly communicate your choices, and stand by them without guilt.  

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5) Emotional boundaries

Some family members may feel entitled to express their opinions in ways that are hurtful or intrusive. It is important to set boundaries against emotional manipulation, guilt-tripping, or constant criticism.

If a relative’s words or actions affect your mental health, address it calmly and let them know what is acceptable and what is not. Protecting your peace should always be a priority.  

There you have it, five family boundaries you need to set to have a happier life. How many of these do you have in place already?

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