14 signs your man is a totally insecure person [Part 2]

oge okonkwo

January 20, 2016 10:12 PM

It would be unfortunate if you realise too late that the man you fell in-love with isn't who you thought he was but an overbearing, possessive and insecure person

Possessive husband

He may be Prince Charming in the beginning and you could be caught in the moment while he's showering all the attention on you, but it's advisable to open your eyes and see if his intentions are good.

It would be unfortunate to realise too late that the man you fell in-love with isn't who you thought he was but an overbearing, possessive and insecure person you need to get away from pretty fast.

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Inspired by Your Tango, here are a few signs that your man is really insecure, read the first part here:

8. He constantly accuses you of having feelings for your ex: He still believes that you still have some kind of feelings for your ex though you both split way before you met him. His insecurity over clouds his sense of judgement and that's not good for you.

9. His gifts are unending: He constantly buys you things, even the ones you don't need in order to show he truly loves you. This may be a huge insecurity on his part because he thinks that buying you everything and more will make you stay with him.

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10. He's jealous of your friends: He may want to start some kind of unhealthy competition for your undivided because he's jealous of your friends. he doesn't like you going out to meet them and may want to accompany you to see them or keeps calling constantly to check up on you.

11. He keeps calling you his all in all: It may seem flattering in the beginning but soon you have to live up to that pressure he's putting you on. this is not a good sign, and means he's clearly obsessed with you.

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12. He stalks you on social media: He follows everything you do on social media religiously and will get pissed off if he doesn't like what you put up on your page or some friend of the opposite sex comments on your page.

13. He's super sensitive to criticism: He takes even the most constructive of criticism the wrong way. His low self-esteem may be the cause of this behaviour.

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14. He needs to be told only good things about himself: There's this need for constant validation from you and you get to hear questions like "do you love me" constantly. Everyone loves to hear compliment but this just goes over the top.

oge okonkwo