According to Divorce expert, Olessa Pindak on Marlo Thomas show, one way couples can avoid a divorce is to start paying attention to the warning signs and make sure you are noticing if you're feeling like you're starting to grow apart.
Once you begin to feel disconnected, then you might start to notice the signs of drifting between you both.
If you feel you need external help she says,then a marriage counsellor would be very helpful for couples.
Watch this short video of Pindak explaining better: