Sex is the only unique thing youre meant to share with your spouse and nobody else; so you always have to make it bang!

And for a lot of women, a great and vital component of making that happen getting is amazing, oral sex.

While the totality of foreplay is important, it's not news that a solid head game is largely more important than all other forms of foreplay.

In a recent poll published here on Pulse, we asked women if they'd agree to a relationship [or stay in a relationship] with a man who wouldn't give oral sex.

Of course, a higher percentage [57.1%] voted to say they won't even consider it, compared to 42.9% who said they have no qualms with it.

"Once I know that he does not do oral sex, I'm not even going to think about it," says Milo, who speaks with Pulse  in anonymity.

This confirms what we already know; guys you can't afford to not lick your woman's plate.

It's actually one of the biggest crimes you can ever commit during sex.

It is so important to women's sexual satisfaction that quite a number of women have been heard to say good head can actually replace sex for them.

It's not non-stop action and endless pumping, guys, just head.

It is such an easy, obvious trick that women have relentlessly taught and it's really frustrating for a lot of them if you do not.

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This could actually cause you a lot of problems in the relationship especially if you somehow expect to get head from her while you won't return the goodness.

Sexperts have been known to also advise that it is better to make your woman cum before you, and one easy way to do this is by going down on her.

Your woman's pleasure should always be your priority if you hope to have a great sex life, and by implication, establish a solid base of happiness in your relationship.

Even if your partner doesn't care that much about it, it still does not hurt to go down on her. And sometimes do it without expecting her to do same to you.

You will be surprised at how different your sex life and relationship will be. She'll be happier, she'll glow and she won't nag and be moody as she always tends to be.

If on the other hand you refuse to acknowledge this need or act on it, your chances of holding on to that relationship and all the good things in it takes a huge hit.