The new year is around the corner and that means it's time to declutter! We’re not just decluttering our homes, but our hearts. 

We're ditching the relationships that no longer fit, the ones that weigh us down instead of uplifting us.

This isn't about blame or judgment. It's about choosing ourselves, about recognising that sometimes, growth means outgrowing, and that's okay. It's natural to evolve, and your needs within a relationship might change alongside you.

So, how do you know if you've outgrown your relationship and it's time for a detour or even a complete change of scenery? Here are 5 signs your relationship might be sending you subtle or not-so-subtle signals it's time for a rethink:

Different life goals

If you find that your long-term goals and aspirations no longer align with your partner's, it could be a sign that you're outgrowing the relationship. Whether it's career ambitions, family planning, or lifestyle preferences, major misalignments in your goals for the future can create tensions that may hinder your growth as an individual.

Dying communication

Good communication equals a healthy relationship. If you notice a consistent decline in communication, conversations feeling forced, constant misunderstandings, unexpressed feelings, or a lack of emotional connection, it might be an indication that you've grown apart.

If you're finding it difficult to connect as much as before, you need to reassess the relationship.

Resentment and frustration

Resentment is a silent killer in relationships. If you find yourself harbouring persistent resentment or frustration towards your partner, it may be a sign that there are underlying issues that have not been addressed. Disagreements are inevitable, but when every conversation morphs into constant arguments, with resentment festering, something deeper is amiss in your relationship, and you need a rethink.

Emotional distance

Remember the butterflies, the anticipation, the sheer joy of being together? If those feelings have dimmed, it's time to ask yourself if this is the kind of relationship you deserve. Emotions should not be forced.

Limited personal growth

You're setting new goals, chasing dreams, and feeling energised about personal growth. But your partner is dismissive of your aspirations, or even hindering your progress. This one-sided growth imbalance can create a suffocating feeling. A good relationship involves both individuals evolving and supporting each other's growth. If you sense that your aspirations are being hindered, it may be a sign to reevaluate the relationship's compatibility with your journey.