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Marriage is a beautiful journey filled with love, compromise, and sometimes, a little bit of healthy banter. But let’s face it, there are a few questions that, when asked, can transform a peaceful home into the front lines of a battle.

5 questions that start fights in marriages | Pulse Nigeria

Stella Takyiwaa Okyere

<p> But let’s face it, there are a few questions that, when asked, can transform a peaceful home into the front lines of a battle. Here’s a take on five classic questions that are notorious for starting a little squabble:</p>

<h2><strong>"What have you been doing all day?"</strong> </h2>

<p>Ah, the age-old question that implies a whole lot of nothing has been done. Whether one spouse has been running around ticking off a to-do list or just catching up on some well-deserved rest, this question can easily sound like an accusation of laziness. </p>

<p>Tip: Replace it with, “Babe, tell me about your day!” It sounds less like an interrogation and more like an <a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulse.com.gh/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/has-your-girlfriend-gone-distant-here-are-6-ways-to-win-her-back/pttjsfg">invitation to share</a>.</p>

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<h2><strong>"What did you use the money for?"</strong></h2>

<p> This question can make a simple inquiry sound like a full-blown audit. It’s the financial equivalent of “Why is there a mysterious dent on the car?” Instead of immediately jumping to conclusions, a lighter approach might be, “Hey, just checking in on our spending. Anything exciting or boring I should know about?”</p>

<h2><strong>"Why are you coming home at this time?"</strong> </h2>

<p>This one is a classic if you’re looking to mimic a scene from a soap opera. The late arrival of a spouse can turn into a drama-filled inquiry session. To keep things cheerful, maybe a joking, “Were you out saving the city again?” could lighten the mood.</p>

<h2><strong>"Why is the food not ready?"</strong> </h2>

<p>Perhaps not the best question to ask a spouse who might have also had a day filled with meetings or chasing after kids. Instead of questioning the timeline, offering to help with dinner could lead to a fun cooking session together—minus the side of passive aggression!</p>

<h2><strong>"Who is calling you at this time?"</strong> </h2>

<p>This question can be loaded with suspicions and might make your spouse feel like they’re in a spy thriller. A playful alternative could be, “Is that your secret admirer again or just the pizza delivery updates?”</p>

<p>Marriage means turning potentially touchy situations into moments of laughter and bonding. Next time you’re tempted to ask one of these questions, maybe try a humorous twist. After all, they say laughter is the best medicine, and in<a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulse.com.gh/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/5-things-married-women-should-never-tell-their-side-piece/9k9l04c"> marriage</a>, it just might be the secret to peace and understanding too!</p>

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5 questions that start fights in marriages

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