But that may be less about their vibe (whatever that actually means) and more to do with their aura color, says Pamala Oslie, an aura expert and author of Life Colors. "Even if people can't see the aura, we can all feel it," she explains. That's why you can meet someone for the first time and have either an "Ugh" or "OMG" gut reactionit all depends on whether your aura colors are compatible.
\"Even if people can\'t see the aura, we can all feel it.\"
But before diving into the wide world of aura-color compatibility, you gotta learn the basics. A person's aura color, also known as their "life color," Oslie notes, shows their personality, relationship, and career tendencies. "Those are the one or two colors in the aura that are closest to the body," she explains, adding that most people give off two aura colors (because people are complicated, mkay?).
Of those two aura colors, everyone has a primary and secondary one. So, you might be mainly yellow with some violet, or mainly blue with some red. Occasionally, Osliewho says she can see 14 aura colorshas encountered people who only have one, but it's pretty rare.
To find out your aura colors, Oslie offers an online quiz on her website. Knowing the color of your aura is key, she says, because it can not only help you understand who you are, but also give you actual permission to be who you are. (Feel stuck in a dead-end job? Check your aura color. Keep fighting with your S.O. ? Compare those auras. Need to better manage your cash? Use. Your. Aura.)
"Each one of the aura-color personalities has different needs," Oslie says. "I don't do this to box somebody in or categorize them; this is to help people know how to navigate their lives so that they can be happy and fulfilled."
Once you've got the rundown on all the different aura color personalities (more on that in a sec), you can also better understand your friends, family, and even that cool rando you met at a party last week. "Then, it's easier to communicate, get along, and bring the best out of each other," Oslie says. And, I mean, who doesn't want that?
Here's what each aura color means and how to tell which one is yours:
What it means if your aura color is yellow:
"Yellows are basically the free-spirited little kids of the planet," says Oslie. "Theyre playful. They dont look their age. They dont feel their age. Theyre the perennial Peter Pans." (In other words, the entire male cast of Southern Charm .) That starting to maybe, kinda, definitely sound like you? Well, buckle up, buttercuphere's how to tell if you're truly mellow yellow:
- If you had your way, you'd be all play and no work.
- Your creative juices are pretty much always ~flowing~.
- Freedom's basically your middle name (not that Mary isn't good, too).
- You're known for being spontaneous.
- You need nature in your life.
- You have to exercise to be happy.
- You have an epic sense of humor.
- Though you'd probably never admit it, you're a bit of a people pleaser.
- You get your feelings hurt easily.
- You don't like being told what to do.
- You don't want to be tied down...which likely explains why you always seem to thirst after someone who's unavailable.
In a perfect world, yellows would go straight from the sandbox to sunny retirement, but since most people need to punch a clock (to, ya know, survive), you're likely drawn to creative, healing, or physical work, says Oslie. Yellows tend to be comedians, massage therapists, doctors, veterinarians, or yoga instructors.
Some celebrities with yellow auras include Ellen Degeneres and Kate Hudson (both are yellow-blue), according to Oslie, while Brad Pitt and Harrison Ford have yellow-tan auras.
What it means if your aura color is violet:
\"Violets have an important missionthey\'re the visionaries, the global humanitarians...\"
In Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Violet Beauregarde was selfish AF, but violet auras are anything but. "Violets have an important missionthey're the visionaries, the global humanitarians," says Oslie. "They want to make a difference, help others, and generally improve people's quality of life." But it's not all philanthropy and pleasantries, here's what else violets are into:
- Whether backpacking or jet-setting is more your speed, you're obsessed with travel (and have the passport stamps to prove it).
- You've always been drawn to the arts.
- There's so much you want to do in life...but you're not always sure how you'll get it all done.
- You see the big pictureand don't understand why others just don't.
- Ever been told your head's in the clouds? Yeah, thought so.
- But, when you focus on a project, you're basically unstoppable.
- You're naturally compassionate, which is probably why you have so many deep feels.
- You talk in visual terms, like "I have a vision" and "I have a dream."
- Sometimes, your dreams are so big, you wonder if you'll ever achieve them.
- The only time you follow someone is on Instagramyou're a born leader.
- You easily outgrow whatever you're doing the second it starts to bore you.
- When meeting someone new, you trust your intuition to get a read on them.
- Romance-wise, you won't settle for anything less than an equal partner in life.
Because violets are artistes (not that you'd ever actually describe yourself as such), they usually go after a career in the arts. In fact, a lot of your fave writers, filmmakers, photographers, actors, and performers are violet. Case in point: Oprah. She has a violet-yellow aura, according to Oslie. Oh, and btw, George and Amal Clooney are both violet-yellows, too.
Speaking of George and Amal, eee how these two violet-yellows thrive in love:
Other violets, however, ditch the paint brush for politics and/or law. Two famous examples of civic-minded violet auras are Abraham Lincoln and Martin Luther King Jr., according to Oslie. So... yeah, you're in d*mn good company.
What it means if your aura color is blue:
If you've ever considered auditioning for The Bachelor or The Bachelorette (even if it was just for a few wine-fueled secs), you've probably got some blue in you. "Blues want to be in love. It's their number one priority," says Oslie. "They're the most emotional, loving, nurturing people on the planet." Wondering whether you're a true blue? Here's how to tell:
- You've definitely teared up watching a commercial (and not just during the Super Bowl).
- Friends would calland uh, definitely have calledyou a "hopeless romantic."
- The Golden Girls theme song describes your friendship style to a T.
- When someone's sad or upset, you can't help but come to the rescue.
- You have a tendency to take care of people everyone else has given up on.
- When you're feeling, well, blue, you're likely to throw yourself a pity party.
- You're all about ride-or-die-level loyalty.
- When you make a commitment, you stick to it.
- You're not just wifey (or hubby) materialyour relationships are built to last.
Like violets, blues want to help peoplejust on a smaller scale. They thrive in careers that allow them to make one-on-one connections as teachers, counselors, or nurses. But some celeb blues have turned their nurturing tendencies into acting talents, like Meg Ryan (in every Nora Ephron rom-com ever) and Jennifer Aniston (every time she says, "Oh, honey," on Friends).
What it means if your aura color is green:
"Greens are the type-A workaholics," says Oslie. "Theyre very driven to accomplish [goals], succeed, and make money." (**Cue "Money" by Cardi B**.) But it's not all about the Benjamins, baby, heres some other traits that might make you a green:
- Move over, Springsteen. Youre the boss.
- Patience isnt exactly your forteyou want things done, like, yesterday.
- Everyone comes to you for financial advice (because you actually know what's up).
- You've been known to finish other peoples sentences.
- Youre one smart cookieand you know it.
- At the top of your game, you create jobs for others.
- But, whenever youre in an argument, you have to win.
- When criticizing others, you could give Judge Judy a run for her daytime TV money.
- You're prone to playing the blame game.
- You spare no expense on material things (luxury cars, designer clothes).
Kermit said it best: It's not easy being green. So while this avocado-esque aura color does get a bit of a bad rep (don't shoot the messenger), greens often have a ton of people depending on them to succeed. They're usually CEOs of corporations, stockbrokers, real estate agents, and of course, finance bros. As much as they might love their high-stakes careers, they come with tons of high-pressure situations.
If this sounds like you (and you don't totally love that), get some positive inspo from these famous greenies: Barbara Walters, Bill Gates (green-violet), David Letterman (green-yellow), and Warren Buffet (green-yellow).
What it means if your aura color is tan:
\"Tans want security and stability.\"
Now, I know what you're thinking (because tbh, I thought it, too): Tan is an aura color? It sure is, according to Oslie, and a pretty solid one at that. "Tans want security and stability," she explains. You know your super-rational friend who talks you down every time you think about blowing your whole paycheck on a really cute pair of boots? Yep, they're a tan. If that friend is you, here's what else you can expect while living in tan land:
- You appreciate practicalityand want as much of it in your life as possible.
- At the end of the day, all you want is a secure paycheck.
- You're the textbook definition of "detail-oriented."
- "Slow and steady wins the race" is your life motto.
- You're the voice of reason among your friends.
- Expressing emotions? Never heard of it.
- You tend to live in your head...a lot.
Got some tan in your aura? You're probably best suited for computer programming, engineering, and bookkeeping. But any career that lets you flex your practical decision making muscles will make you happy. If you're interested in slightly more creative pursuits, however, take a page out of Clint Eastwood's book. He's a famous tan, Oslie says. (All together now: Ohhhhhhh.)
What it means if your aura color is red:
For starters, Olivia Newton-Johns "Lets Get Physical" is the low-key soundtrack to your life. Chances are, you put a lot of time and effort into your fit physique, and you're d*mn proud of it. "They like the physical pleasures of being in a physical body," explains Oslie. Take a quick break between supersets and peep what else reds are into:
- Your will is as strong as your quads after leg day.
- Whether it's your latest bedmate or next business venture, your passion is red-hot.
- Unfortunately, so is your temper.
- Your love life can be explosive (in a good way), but that can also spell trouble in the life-partner-finding department.
- Eating and drinking are two of your favorite activities.
- Closely followed by a serious sweat sesh.
"Reds need a career that allows them to express themselves physically," says Oslie. Body builders, dancers, surgeons, truck drivers, and coaches are all red-ready professions. Apparently, so is pop superstar: Both Madonna and Lady Gaga are famous reds with touches of violet, Oslie explains, which checks out (just consider how loud and proud they are on stage).
Which aura colors are compatible with each other?
Just like zodiac signs, some auras are more of a match made in multicolored heaven than others. The difference? Whereas zodiac signs are generally most compatible with adjacent signs, aura colors are usually into the exact same or similar colors. "A lot of the time, blues will be with blues, and yellows tend to attract each other, too," Oslie explains, referring to primary aura colors. Tans also tend to attract their fellow tans, but greens and yellows can also make for a love connection.
Violets, however, can be amazing together...as long as they share the same overarching vision, she says. But they also need to have their own projects and their own spotlight. Otherwise, they can get a little competitive with each other, and that's no bueno. Instead, they might find their happily ever after with a red, green, or blue.
The exception to the rule? Reds are best off with greens and violets, according to Oslie . With greens, it's vice-versa: They pair well with violets, reds, and tans. Sorta like a Christmas tree, amirite?