What to do when you feel no connection with someone who likes you
There are three options available to you...
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How do you navigate the awkward/difficult situation of rejecting someone without making them feel rejected?
It's one major issue ladies face especially when the guy is a decent one who just somehow couldn't elicit that sweet giddy feeling of falling in love in them.
Eniola Abumere realises this and profers solutions in a video published on his Youtube channel today, May 5th, 2017.
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According to him, when a lady finds herself in this kind of situation, she has three options.
1. Go with the flow
The first is to just go with the flow to see where the wave takes her. Everyone deserves to give love a chance even if it's not looking like it at the beginning.
2. Be honest
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Another thing one could do is to flat-out tell the guy that the attraction is just one-sided and that a relationship wouldn't blossom, no matter what the guy does. This requires a sort of brutal honesty and is difficult to pull off.
Generally though, honesty always pays, no matter how uneasy or bitter it is.
3. Ghosthim
The last thing to do would be to ghost. Just block off all forms of communication. The person will eventually get the message and stop trying.
Watch the video below to understand better as Eniola discusses these things in detail.
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